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kamakajaI maihlaaeM banaama gaRhiNayaaM

kamakajaI maihlaaeM Gar zIk sao calaa patI hOM yaa nahIM‚ gaRhiNayaaM ApnaI phcaana sao iktnaI saMtuYT hOMÆ lambao samaya sao yah ivaYaya samaaja maoM ivavaad ka mau_a rha hO. lagaBaga tBaI sao jaba bahut kma is~yaaM ApnaI Aaiqa-k Aa%mainaBa-rta ko baaro maoM saaocatI qaIM yaa iksaI ivavaSata ko tht Gar sao baahr inakla kr Qana Aija-t krtI qaIM Apnaa pirvaar calaanao ko ilayao. Aaja jaba hr dUsarI maihlaa svayaMisawa haonaa caahtI hO tba BaI yah p`Snaicanh kayama hO. @yaa naaOkrI ko saaqa Gar zIk sao calaayaa jaa sakta hOÆ kuC Aitir@t ]%saahI AaOr saxama maihlaaAaoM ko tpak sao ]<ar imalato hOM‚ 'haM haM @yaaoM nahIMÆ' kuC maihlaaeM khtI hOM‚ 'haM mauiSkla tao haotI hO pr calaanaa haota hO. kBaI [Qar tao kBaI ]Qar KIMcatana hao hI jaatI hO.'

[sa baaro maoM sabako Apnao Apnao ivacaar AaOr AnauBava hOM. kuC maihlaaAaoM ko ilayao naaOkrI krnaa Qanaaja-na ka maaQyama maa~ hO AaOr vao Gar saucaa$ $p sao calaanao ko ilayao hI naaOkrI krtI hOM‚ ek iSaixaka khtI hO‚ "Aajakla ek tna#vaah sao Gar khaM calata hO." kuC maihlaaAaoM ko ilayao ]nakI naaOkrI ]nako Apnao Kcaao-M AaOr rhna sahna ko str maoM baZ,ao<arI ka saaQana maa~ hO. eosao maoM ek kna-la kI pi%na AaOr baOMkkmaI- AnaIta bahla ka khnaa hO‚ "Aajakla la@ja,rI ka ja,maanaa hO‚ kovala pit kI tna#vaah tao Gar ko kama AatI hO‚ baaik saaro BaaOitk saaQana AaOr baccaaoM kI ]cca iSaxaa ka Kca- maOM ]zatI hUM." kuC maihlaaAaoM ko ilayao yah maa~ kOiryar ka p`Sna hO AaOr Aa%masaMtuiYT yaa Aija-t &ana ko ]pyaaoga ka maaQyama. ek safla vyavasaayaI kI Da^@Tr pi%na hOM ina$pmaa‚ vao ApnaI saMtuiYT ko ilayao ek garIba bastI maoM Apnaa Asptala samaajasaovaa ko ilayao calaatI hOM.

naaOkrI kI ApnaI maaMga AaOr ija,mmaodairyaaM hOM AaOr Gar tao ek 'fulaTa[-ma jaa^ba'. kOsao saamanjasya haoÆ

pr ijanhoM naaOkrI iksaI na iksaI vajah sao krnaI hI hO vao iksaI trh kama calaatI hOM. rsaao[-‚ Gar ka maOnaojamaonT‚ baccaaoM kI pZ,a[- ‚ pitdova ka #yaala‚ saamaaijak ija,mmaodairyaaM‚ maohmaana saba kuC saMBaalato saMBaalato hue BaI khIM na khIM kuC ]poixat hao hI jaata hO. kuC nahIM tao svayaM hI ]poixat hao jaatI hO s~I. khIM svaasqya Kraba tao khIM vah svayaM kao tnaava maoM Dala daonaaoM isaraoM kao imalaanao ko p`yaasa maoM lagaI rhtI hO. caaho pit AaOr vaao ek hI samaya pr Gar laaOToM pr jahaM pit AKbaar laokr baOz jaaeMgao vahIM s~I kao saIQao ikcana maoM caaya banaanao jaanaa hI haogaa. naaOkraoM pr Aajakla iktnaa inaBa-r ikyaa jaa sakta hOÆ ifr baccaaoM kI pZ,a[- AaOr ]nakI samasyaaeM doKao.

ikntu jaba Aitir@t pOsaa yaa kao[- ]plaibQa haqa lagatI hO tao saarI qakana ]tr jaatI hO.

dUsarI Aaor gaRhiNayaaM hOM‚ vao saba kuC AcCI trh saMBaalato hue‚ rsaao[-‚ baccao‚ irSto naato …khIM Apnao Aist%va kI phcaana ko ilayao trsatI hu[- lagatI hOM…pit nao Aakr kh idyaa ik tuma tao saara idna Gar maoM KalaI rhtI hao…maOM Aa^ifsa sao qaka Aayaa hUM tumhoM khIM jaanao kI pD,I hO. basa gaRhNaI haonao ko sauK kao ga`hNa laga jaata hO. maMjaUYaa ka khnaa hO‚ "vaOsao tao saba zIk hO‚ pr kBaI kBaI Aap Apnao iksaI Baa[- bahna kao igaFT donaa caahao tao [nasao maaMganaa AjaIba lagata hO‚ Apnaa pOsaa haonaa caaihyao. kBaI kBaI iksaI caIja, ko psaMd Aanao pr yao kh doto hOM falatU bajaT nahIM tba mana krta hO kaSa naaOkrI hI kr laI haotI tao yaUM trsanaa tao na pD,ta." Par yah baat BaI pUrI saca nahIM. Ap-Naa ek kMpnaI maoM maOnaojar hO khtI hO‚ "svayaM ko ilayao kuC KrIdnao ka yaa sajanao saMvarnao jaovar phnanao ka samaya khaM hO. yao tao GarolaU AaOrtaoM ko caaoMcalao hOM."

gaRhiNayaaoM kI ApnaI saMtuiYT hO ik jaba baccao skUla sao laaOToM tao vao kma sao kma Apnao saamanao Kanaa tao iKlaa saktI hO. samaya pr ]nakI pZ,a[- AaOr Anya gaitivaiQayaaoM pr naja,r rK saktI hO. ifr BaI daonaaoM gaRhiNayaaoM kao AaOr kamakajaI maihlaaAaoM kao dUsaro ka hI sauK Balaa lagata hO,.

maOM svayaM ek kamakajaI AaOr vyast maaM kI baoTI rhI hUM‚ AcCI iSaxaa AaOr Zor saaro AvasaraoM ko baavaja,Ud maOM nao naaOkrI krnao ko baaro maoM kBaI nahIM saaocaa‚ @yaaoMik maOM jaanatI qaI ik proSaainayaaoM ko saaqa saaqa mammaI AaOr hma baccaaoM nao daonaaoM nao khIM AnadoKa Anajaanaa saa kuC Kaoyaa BaI hO. ivavaah sao phlao maIDIyaa maoM svatn~ $p sao kama krtI qaI AaOr ivavaah ko baad ek vaayausaonaa AiQakarI kI p%naI haonao ko naato yah saMBaavanaa BaI K%ma hao gayaI. hma daonaaoM nao hI sayauM@t $p sao yah inaNa-ya ilayaa ik‚ ik maOM Gar maoM hI rhUM . ikntu jaba Aap pZ,o ilaKo AaOr p`itBaaSaalaI haoto hOM tao khIM na khIM KalaI Gar pr saja saMvar kr baOz kr gaa^isap krnao ka sauK tk AKrnao lagata hO AaOr kamakajaI maihlaaAaoM kI Aaiqa-k svatn~ta [-Yyaa- kI vajah bana jaatI hO. yah saba Baava maoro mana maoM BaI jaagao pr maOM svayaM kao naaOkrI krnao ko ilayao tOyaar na kr sakI‚ maOM caahtI qaI ik kuC eosaa hao ik Gar baOzo ikyaa jaa sako. vah ekmaa~ svatn~ laoKna hI hao sakta qaa.

maoro pirvaar maoM mauJao CaoD, kr‚ j,yaadatr maihlaaeM AcCo pdaoM pr kama krtI hOM. maOM nao gaRhNaI haonao ko naato AaOr kamakajaI maihlaaAaoM kao bahut krIba sao jaananao ko karNa daonaaoM hI kI pirisqaityaaoM kao krIba sao jaanaa hO. daonaaoM maoM sao kuC BaI kmatr yaa baohtr nahIM hO. daonaaoM hI ek hd tk saMtuYT AaOr ek hd tk AsaMtuYT hOM. daonaaoM kao hI khIM kuC Kaonao ka Baava saalata hO. daonaaoM hI kao Apnao xao~ kI ]plaibQayaaM imalatI hOM. daonaaoM kI ApnaI phcaana haotI hO‚ na hao tao yah ]na pr hO ik vao ApnaI phcaana banaaeM.

kamakajaI maihlaaAaoM kao Aaiqa-k svatn~ta kI saMtuiYT hO tao gaRhiNayaaoM kao Gar ka maOnaojamaonT saMBaalanao kI. gaRhiNayaaoM kao AsaMtuiYT hO ik ]nhoM baat baat pr pit sao pOsao maaMganao haoto hOM‚ tao kamakajaI maihlaaAaoM kao Gar ]poixat krnao kI. yahaM yah baat saca hO ik khIM kuC panao pr Kaonaa BaI tao haota hO. rhI Aist%va kI phcaana kI baat ek gaRhNaI BaI saamaaijak kayaao-M maoM ihssaa laokr samaaja maoM ApnaI phcaana banaa saktI hO tao kamakajaI maihlaa BaI ApnaI vyastta ko baavaja,Ud svayaM kao ek safla gaRhNaI khlavaa saktI hO. gaRhNaI‚ Gar rh kr BaI Aaiqa-k $p sao Aa%mainaBa-r hao saktI hO basa ApnaI p`itBaa kao phcaananao kI baat hO. Gar maoM rh kr k[- maihlaaeM bauTIk‚ [MTIiryar DokaoroSana‚ byaUTIiSayana‚
kukrI yaa Anya ha^baI @laasaoja,‚ Ëoca Aaid ka kama saMBaalatI hI hOM.

sabakI ApnaI pirisqaityaaM AaOr ApnaI p`aqaimaktaeM haotI hOM. Baart maoM puÉYa iktnaa BaI samaJadar AaOr sahayak @yaaoM na hao Gar tao saMBaalanaa s~I kao hI hO‚ saamaaijak kt-vya BaI j,yaadatr s~I ko ihssao Aato hOM‚ kamakajaI maihlaa hao yaa gaRhNaI. maanaa ik puÉYa baahr ko maaocao- kao saMBaala s~I kao baccaaoM kao saurixat rKta hO ikntu s~I ko ilayao gaRhsqaI ko k[- k[- maaocaao-M kao ek saaqa saMBaalanaa haota hI hO …caaho vah kamakajaI maihlaa hao yaa gaRhNaI.

jaba pUro idna pit AaOr baccaaoM ko kamaaoM maoM ]laJakr maOM rat jaldI Kanao sao fusa-t pakr‚ baccaaoM kao samaJaa kr‚ ik 'doKao baccaaoM mammaI ka Gar hI Aa^ifsa hO‚ Aap kma sao kma dao GaNTo yao samaJanaa ik mammaI Aa^ifsa ga[- hO. laD,naa mat‚ papa sao haomavak- caOk krvaanaa.' pitdova kao ]naka haomavak- doKnao ka saivanaya Aaga`h krnao ko baad jaba kmPyaUTr pr baOztI hUM tao…baOla bajatI hO…pit ko klaIga Aae hOM…ka^la Aa^na krnao…Aba Aaz bajao ko baad Aae hOM tao Kanaa Kakr tao jaaeMgao hI…phlao iD/n@sa calaoMgao‚ ifr Kanaa Kato Kato baarh baja jaaeMgao.

Aba @yaa kuC AaOr khnao kao SaoYa bacata hO…… ik gaRhNaI hao yaa kamakajaI s~I ]sako ilayao gaRhsqaI ek caunaaOtI hO.

– manaIYaa kulaEaoYz
idsambar 2‚ 2001

AiBaBaavak AaOr ikSaaoravsqaa – AsaIma inaiQa
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